I helped to officiate a funeral this weekend.  My role, besides giving the invocation and reading the obituary, was to share a few words at the graveside.

I shared the verse, Psalm 116:15.  It says,

“Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.”

I asked the question, “Why is it precious to God when a Christian passes through this life to the next?”  In an attempt to both encourage the family as well as faithfully bear witness to the gospel I answered this question as it relates to three different persons or groups of persons: the individual who passed away, the Christians affected by his death, and the non-Christians affected by his death.

So why is it precious to the Lord when his faithful pass?  Because its a homecoming, an encouragement, and a challenge.

1. Homecoming—for the deceased

→The deceased believer is at home with Jesus.  They were not made for this world with its sin, suffering, and shame.  They were made for God and now they are with him and enjoying him and worshipping in a more fully realized sense than ever before.

2. Encouragement—for the believing bereaved

→ This is not the end.  Your loved one is not lost and gone forever.  They are merely on the other side.  They are with God.  And one day we will be there with them.

3. Challenge—to the unbelieving bereaved

→ May this occasion be an opportunity for you to be challenged by considering the brevity of life, your need for a savior, and the invitation of the gospel.

Have you ever had some close to you pass away?  What words were shared with you that were helpful as you tried to endure the grieving process?

Pastor Gumball, by Naked Pastor

This artwork from Naked Pastor is disturbing.  (Don’t be worried by his name, though.  I can assure you everything in this post is fully clothed.)

It’s disturbing because its true.  How many pulpits in churches around the globe are more like contemporary Christian candy stores than platforms from which the great and deep truths of God’s Word are passionately and consistently expounded?  I’m afraid the answer is a simple but scary, “Too many.”

Preachers, let’s make sure that we don’t, as Naked Pastor put it, “Trivialize the truth for the sake of popularity.”

What truths do you think are trivialized and turned into “gumballs” most often?

Everyone faces temptation (I Cor. 10:13).  Even Jesus (Matt. 4:1-11).  Here are a few germane to the role of a pastor.

1. Familiarity—loss of awe at holy and amazing things.
2. Identity amnesia—forgetting you are a person and have a life apart from the ministry vocation.
3. Missional confusion—losing sight of being an ambassadorial representative of Christ at all times.
4. Mediocrity.
5. Self-righteousness.
6. Fear of man.
7. Formalism—when public ministry overwhelms private devotion (no s).
8. Self-promotion.
9. Family neglect.
10. Numbing—TV, food, escapism, banal entertainment
11. Politicizing—politics aims at preserving positions; pastoral ministry isn’t concerned with position.
12. Bitterness—against obstructors.
13. Envy—looking over the fence at some other ministry.
14. Self-rule.
15. Loss of zeal.

I certainly find myself (unfortunately) relating to some of these.  Given my fallen, fleshly state I understand my vulnerability to all of them be it not for God’s daily grace of protection and provision in my life.

How about you?  Any of these a real and present danger in your life?  Any others that may not be on this list?

Credit Where Credit is Due:

• I copied this list from Pastor Sam Crabtree of Bethlehem Baptist Church.
• The material isn’t original with him, though.  It’s notes he took from a talk given by Paul Tripp.

Dr. Richard Mayhue contributed an excellent little chapter called “The Pastor’s Home”  in the book, Rediscovering Pastoral Ministry, edited by John MacArthur.

He writes that,

“Without the strength of my home, I would never have made it through twenty years of ministry.  My marriage and my family provide me a home where I can:

1. retreat—get away from the pressures
2. relax—enjoy a different environment
3. recharge—gain a new supply of energy
4. relate—enjoy my wife and children
5. rehabilitate—heal the wounds
6. reach out—to neighbors, friends, and flock
7. research—uninterrupted study/writing
8. raise a family—children and grandchildren
9. ripen—grow in God’s grace
10. rejoice—praise the Lord
11. reflect—quiet moments to contemplate
12. reinvest—in my grandchildren
13. regain perspective—in prayer and Scripture”

Mayhue closes this section by saying that,

“When I leave the fair haven nof my home for ministry, I depart in strength, not weakness.”

What a wonderful description and goal for all of us who minister.  Can you think of any other things that a godly, peaceful home can supply and accomplish in a pastor’s life?

A pastor is an individual who, by virtue of what the word “pastor” means, behaves toward his parishioners in a way very similar to how a shepherd behaves toward his flock of sheep.

A shepherd in the Near Eastern world of the Scriptures was responsible for protecting, nurturing, feeding and keeping up with his sheep.  Likewise, pastors of local churches are responsible for all of these same things in a spiritual sense.

The Greek word from which most English translations get the word “pastor” is most frequently translated as “shepherd.”   In fact, of the 18 times the NT uses this Greek word, only once is it translated as “pastor.”  The other 17 times it is simply “shepherd.”

See for yourself.

The Apostle Paul uses this word to refer to pastors in Eph. 4:11.  Jesus uses it of Himself John 10:14.  There he says, “I am the Good Shepherd.”

As a pastor it’s important for me that I am a “shepherd” of the members of my church.  BUT…its also important for me to remember that I am also a sheep.  I think all pastors would do well to be reminded of and to remember that we too are sheep.  Our shepherd is Christ Himself.

For pastors to remember that they too are sheep is helpful in several ways.  It helps us to:

1. Fight against pride in our lives.
2. Cultivate humility in our ministries.
3. Engender trust in Christ who is our Shepherd.
4. Relate better to our fellow sheep.

Can you think of any other reasons why its beneficial for pastors/”shepherds” to remember that they are also sheep?